Someone told me yesterday that I was too nice all the time. Too nice that it gives others pressure.
Example:
I would willingly give up all the mushrooms to Cheryl, or the fish dumpling in my xiao guo mian… cus I know the other person likes it more than me. And I really don’t care about that dumpling.
But by doing so, it gives the person stress. Like I am giving in all the time.
Instead, I SHOULD have shared half with the person. Or say that I don’t like it, “you want??”
This way, the person would feel more at ease.
Really?
